What does Sex and Love have to do with Leadership? Well, the entire subject of sex is one of which he majority of people appear to unpardonably ignorant (even me). In fact I believe the urge of sex has been grossly misunderstood, slandered and burlesqued by the evil minded for so long that the word “SEX” is almost prohibited in polite society or conversation.

Men and women how are know to be happy, blessed, - Yes blessed - with highly sexed natures are usually looked upon with suspicion. Instead of being blessed there are in fact cursed.

Million of people, even in our era have developed an inferiority complexes or distorted views because of the false belief that an highly sex nature is wrong or curse. Don’t take me wrong I am absolutely not making an justification for the libertine or debauchee of sex.

I’m sure every intelligent person knowns that whatever stimulation in excess through alcoholic drink, narcotic, is a form intemperance that destroys the vital organs of the body, including the brain, as well as overindulgence in sex expression may become a habit as destructive to creative effort.

Therefore you may wonder what bring me to the subject? OK, Do you know what are the Human Mind Stimuli?

1. The desire of sex expression
2. Love
3. A burning desire for fame, power, financial gain and money
4. Music
5. Friendship
6. A Master Mind Group
7. Mutual suffering
8. Autosuggestion
9. Fear
10. Narcotics and alcohol

That’s right, and adding to that the 3 strongest human emotion are Sex, Faith and Love. As much as we may not want to talk about it sex happen to be in our head all the time; our mind is program to respond to stimulation!

Therefore if sex is the most powerful human emotion and brain stimuli, we probably should start thinking our to use it more effectively in our role of leader, and one more time I am referring myself the the act of the sex, but to is emotion or the intellectual one.

You will be surprised to know that a teacher who has trained and directed the efforts of more than 30,000 sales people made the astonishing discovery that highly sexed people are the most efficient in sales.

The explanation is quite simple - not easy - the factor of our personality known as “personal magnetism” is nothing more than sex energy, making highly sexed people full of personal magnetism. Through understanding and ****tivating, this vital force, ones may want to use it to his advantage in his leadership style and orient in a more convenient form of expression and through the following media:

1. Handshake, by touching someone hands you are in direct contact with his/her magnetism
2. Tone of voice, to color your voice, make it musical and charming
3. Posture and the way you carry your body, learn to move with grace and ease
4. Vibration of your thoughts, remember your brain is a receiver and broadcaster
5. Body appearance

You may e surprise to know that often in sales and in leadership position the ones hired are often the one with a high personal magnetism, in fact people who lack sex energy often lack of enthusiasm.

If you are a public speaker, preacher, lawyer, or saleperson and you’re lacking of sex energy, I am sorry to say but you will find it difficult to influence others, in fact if you’re really think about about it most people can be influenced through the appeal of their emotion (Sex, Faith and Love), therefore you can understand the importance to ****tivate you sex energy and transmute it into enthusiasm.

In fact you need to learn how to take and control your mind of the subject of sex and direct it in through the different media. Control comes from persistence and habits, and control itself comes form your ability to transmute any negative emotions that comes to your mind into a productive and positive one by changing your thoughts.

Thoughts are one of the most important building blocks for lasting behavior change, if you can start to change your thoughts, to be more “success conscious”.

To Your Success,

Olivier Madel-Felicite

ThinkBeyond-Management